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Sunday, June 8, 2008

Emotional Mess Syndrome...

Did you noticed am away for a bit?



am going through something called emotional mess syndrome...First i thought, like Dawn says, it was LAD :)) Noooooooooo



not LAD..



Ok let me go with symptoms..



1. feeling tied and nauseated in the morning.



2. anything and everything makes me cry...



3. feeling dizzy any time of the day..



4. without tea my morning will not start...now even the thought of tea is nauseating..



5. no more talking to hubby any more :))



6. no more cooking.



7. don't like the smell of food especially meat...yuck



8. craving for some food my mom made..



9. want to be back to my family right now.



10. fear



11. can't sit down anywhere...let alone in front of computer..



12. sleepy all the time..



13. no more prayers



14. frustration



15. depression



there are more but that is enough for now....did anyone go through this? anyone have any idea how to treat or which specialist to see? :))



If so please let me know...



Thank you for all the help..



I love you all..



bindi

39 comments:

Cece said...

Crap, this must be what you were wanting to talk to me about. And we kept missing each other on the phone. My question to you first off,have you had a pregnancie test taken in awhile, or on a more personal level (your not late are you?) You may want to talk to you primary care physician and see if they can set you up with a phyciatrist. There may be several medications out there that could help with your depression and mood. Zoloft, Wellbutrin, ect.... I hope you are able to get the help you need. I am sorry you have not been able to reach me by phone. If you want, I could try to come to town next weekend and we could talk at the park by the library while the kids play. Just let me know.

Akelamalu said...

Ok first thought - are you pregnant? I think perhaps you should see your doctor honey.

Resonator said...

hi sweetie...

I ve never experienced these messes..sorry !!

i dont know wat to say..:(

consult a doctor na..


Love
Prema

Jessica said...

Oh, Bindi,
I'm sorry about how you are feeling. :( I've suffered from bouts of depression throughout my life, and each time I deal with it in a different way. What helps me a lot is exercising. If I stop that I tend to feel worse.
I agree, with these other women as well...first go to your MD and see if you you are pregnant.
Feel better, and if there is anything I can do please let me know!

Dawn Drover said...

Bindi I have to agree... EMS sounds much worse LAD...(Lazy Ass Disorder)

Sweetie you should see a doctor cause it sounds like you are either pregnant or depressed. If you are not careful depression will lead to LAD... just kidding :)))
Seriously I have been in your shoes. Go have a check up and take care of yourself.
Lotsa Lovies
Dawn

Leah said...

I agree with what everyone said before me--you, my dear, sound either pregnant or depressed. I've been both, and the symptoms are similar! I would rule out the physical (pregnancy) and then proceed with help for the psychological.

I remember the days of toddlerhood with my little girl--I loved her so much, but it's very physically and emotionally exhausting being the full-time mama of a toddler. Very. The hardest job I've ever had...

much love, and sending good thoughts your way...

Leah

Shari said...

Oh Bindi: I have had EMS before. However, since I just now found out what LAD is, I have one like that in my life and it sucks! I think you could be pregnant or depressed. Just like the others said. I will call you this week. Email me with Brian's schedule so I can call when he's not there. Love you.

Joyful Jo said...

Hi Bindi,
After reading what you wrote, i also thought yup could be pregnant. But then again you have just moved to a new area and trying to adjust there can be daunting and becoming homesick as well could be making you feel this way. Anyway like all the others have said get it all checked out.
Hope it all sorts itself out.
Joxx

Kookaburra said...

My dear Bindi,
Hmmm, now it seems from what you say, and I am not a doctor, but it seems to me that you have described the classic symptoms of a pregnancy. Don't let me here you mention that awful word, Depression again. I certainly hope for your sake that it isn't that. Go and get yourself checked out girl :)

Love,
Mark.

Kookaburra said...

G'day,
Cecile, akelamalu, resonator, jessica, dawn, leah, shari.

Maggie May said...

Just came over from Kylie. I would say you are pregnant! ARE you?

Anonymous said...

Bindi,

I echo what everyone else has said - although I haven't felt the symptoms of pregnancy :-)

I hope you manage to get checked out, whatever it is.

Take care,
Peter x

ps - and Hi everyone!

Arv said...

Going by what others have said, you could be showing symptoms of pregnancy.

If not, try a weekend break or a vacation away from your daily routine. It could just be a need for change or break.

Take care mate...

krystyna said...

Hi Bindhi!
Your post is about ... my syndrome.
and ...there are more but that is enough for now...
OMG, I thought that only I have this symptoms./for sure I'm not pregnant/
So we have to look for good medicine for this pain.
I understand your pain. It is a BIG pain. And my medicine is:

I try...
after cry...
thinking only in the positive way,
and thanks God
for all
bad and good moments.

It help me.

You are very compassion, friendly
woman... visit me.

CIELO said...

Are you pregnant? We all go through that, pregnant or not. It's call "Life Sucks!"

HOpe you feel better soon

cielo

monsoon dreams said...

bindi,
may be u r carrying.get a test done asap.anyways,dont worry,be happy.life is too short,so are the problems.think positive,dear.hope to see u smile sooon:-)

Cece said...

Hey sweet friend,
I enjoyed our phone conversation last night. I hope that I was able to make you feel a little better at least for a little while. I really do hope you get the pregnancy test soon. Please don't hesitate to call me when you need me. Talk to you again soon.
Cece

Jim said...

if it is depression
and u experience LOWs and HIGHs

then it cud be bipolar syndrome

visit SABY BIPOLAR
for more

Dawn Drover said...

Bindi - just checking on you... how are you feeling? We're worried about you girl! Take care {{{HUGS}}}

Here, There, Elsewhere... and more said...

Hi Bindi,
I see from all these comments that you're receiving lots of advice - I'm in no position to give advice as I've never experienced this but my heart goes out to you and if there's anything I can do, please do not hesitate..:)
Don't forget :
“Strength does not come from winning. Your struggles develop your strengths. When you go through hardships and decide not to surrender, that is strength.” unknown

Shara said...

Hey Sweetie,
As of our phone conversation, I think you must take a pg test first. Not knowing is harder to deal with than thinking it's some mental condition. With six children of my own...I've been there...many times. With all the hormones flying at the beginning of a trimester, you're convinced you've slipped on a mental banana!
simple pee test from the drugstore can calm the storm some...then when you've ruled out one thing..go for there. Your friends out here in bloggerland are here. I check on you, love ya,
Shara

Jim said...

I dont no what to say
Hope it is not something serious
like a pregnancy


take heart
it will pass
every thing passes sooner or later


meanwhile try to be positive
positive affirmation is what Krys calls it

u gotta say to yourself
I am OK
I am fine

and soon your body begins to believe your mind

Arv said...

Chechi Suganthane???

Jeevan said...

Bindi are u home sick? I could guess like that. Take care and talk your problem to someone dear to u. nice mother and son in profile pic. Came through Krystyna’s blog.

Kalpana said...

How r u now? Visited from Krystyna's blog... Take care...

Kumudha said...

How are you feeling now?

Take care!

krystyna said...

Hi Bindhi!
Where are you?????

krystyna said...

If you pregnant - it will be son.
I think maybe Jeevan is right- it is home sick?

tqmcintl said...

Yes
u r home sick


take a break
visit your home in India

tqmcintl said...

if there is something u cannot tell here

visit me by email
sabydasouza@yahoo.com

Yes I am Jim Saby

tqmcintl said...

not only for your baby ...

tqmcintl said...

jo hua
achha hi hua

jo hoga
...

God works in mysterious ways
u may think this is a curse

but on hindsight, later
u may think different


I was in the depths of misery
My Depression wud show up at awkward times

I suffered bad
I lay prostrate on the ground
begging God for mercy


and God told me
my Depression is post drink

He made me realize that alcohol is poison for a bipolar person

Now i HAVENT touched drink for more than a month

I have succeeded in kicking the habit


Praise the Lord

bindhiya said...

Thank you all for your kindness and love..that means a world to me...
love and ((hugs))
bindi

Maggie May said...

Bindi,
Hope you are feeling much better now. I am & thank you SO much for your kind comments on MY blog. It helps to share!

Shara said...

Little Sister,
How's the day going? Today is the day you go to the doctor, yes? It will all be fine...you are strong and the reason will all be revealed with time.
Love you bunches,
Shara

Here, There, Elsewhere... and more said...

Bindi, fond thoughts from the other side of the pond..!

krystyna said...

How are today, Bindhi?
I wish you all the best!

Suzanne said...

Hi Bindi,

You know I love you. Forgive me for not writing sooner. I emailed you know and just read your reply. I'll reply as soon as I'm through here. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Rob wants to talk to you as soon as possible, so he'll probably call tonight (I know you said tonight is okay, but if you don't feel well, don't feel like talking or are tired, just tell him and he'll call Thursday night). I can't talk to you tonight because I had my C-Scan today and I have a migraine that is to die for (stress). I hope to talk to you Thursday or Friday night. Okay?

Much love to you and Serene,
Suze, Rob, T-Bone, The Kitties and of course The Goldfish!

P.S. I read every comment and was impressed with the wonderful friends you have, and also by their loving support. You're a very lucky woman Bindi. I know it doesn't feel as if you are right now, but trust me, you are. We have amazing friends, don't we?!

I love you with all my heart. Hang in there honey. XO

Gypsy Butterfly said...

Hello Bindi, I'm sorry to hear your feeling down. I also get that way at times. You should go see a doctor. It's horrible feeling down and out. Hopefully your spirits will lift again soon. Til then take care of your health and be gentle with yourself.