"You may be deceived if you trust too much, but you will live in torment if you don't trust enough."
So how we going to trust people?
I always trust people with all my heart. So many times i got into trouble for trusting...but till to this day I am doing the same...why i don't know...
I hate gossipers! but how you going to find out what is in their mind? when they talking sweet and asking you so many things about your private life, you will answer every single thing they want to know...
I hate to ask any one there whereabouts...i think they will tell me if it is important.
"Have you ever told somebody something in confidence to regret it later? I remember hearing in the news a couple years ago about a woman who should have kept her mouth shut. She was depressed one day at work and muttered to a co-worker that sometimes she just felt like killing herself. Within an hour, a S.W.A.T team had invaded the building, acting upon a tip that a suicidal co-worker was ready to shoot up the workplace. My ONLY point here is...be careful what you say or repeat." by David J Stewart.
Thank you all of my friends for your wonderful words and support...
I love you all...
26 comments:
Use your intuition... if you know a person isn't trustworthy or feel it in your heart... then be a little more vague in your answers or avoid answering at all.
It's hard for all of us... some of us learn the hard way but eventually you'll figure it out!
{{{HUGS}}}
Dear Dawn,
Thank you for your kind words!
am healing from another wound...i know this will pass but it is hard...
♥ & ((hugs))
bindi
it's hard to know who to trust and how much. don't let anyone get you down or hurt. i'm here for you. be strong!
bye,
suzanne:]
Bindi,
It is so true - you have to be careful who you trust. I told someone something in confidence very recently, and I totally regret doing it - they have ignored me ever since. It hurts, but I suppose these people are not true friends at all. We live and learn, don't we?
I'm sure both mine and your wounds will heal and we will forget about such people.
Take care,
Peter
Dear Suzanne,
Baby, you are so sweet..am reading your words through tears...
thanks for your wonderful support..
i love you sweetie!
♥ & ((hugs))
bindi
Dear Peter,
Thank you for your kind words!
Yes, dear "we live and learn"...every day is a new experience..
I know this will pass...but it is hard...
take care
♥ & ((hugs))
bindi
I had to learn that the hard way through my childhood. I try to be cautious and go more with my intuition... You are not alone... so dont worry too much...
Bindi,
I'm sorry you have been hurt but I think it is better to be hurt than never to trust.
I hope you soon heal
♥
Accept others as they are ,it is only
the best way to have a peace of mind.
How r u & family.Good day 2 u and family
Dear Arv,
Thank you!
It is nice to hear am not alone!
Sure i will be cautious now on...
Have a beautiful day!
♥ & ((hugs))
bindi
Dear Kylie,
Thank you for your kind words!
I know it will take time to heal...but this too will pass!
♥ & ((hugs))
bindi
Dear Deepak,
Nice to see you back!
We are fine here..
I thought gossipers are only in my village! No, they are everywhere in all forms! So I learn something new :)
♥ & ((hugs))
bindi
yeah bindi..very true..still happening this thing to me too..
they cheat me easily and gain the precious word of "trust" fm me..wen i suffer at times, they jus move away without even a word..those kinds of activities really kills me...hmm thanks for listening me...
happy days to u sweetie...
love u dear...
love
Prema
Dear Prema,
Nice to see you back!
a recent incident just got me...what to say...another learning experience...
Sure, I will be careful..
take care.
♥ & ((hugs))
bindi
Follow your heart, but be quiet for a while first. Ask questions, then feel the answer. Learn to trust your heart...
Cielo
hi bindi!
hope you have had a good day so far and that it might even get better!
bye,
suzanne:]
hi bindi,
u r not alone.be cheerful,friend!learn from experience.have u heard this saying-"if u tell ur secrets to somebody ,you will be a slave to that person".u will have to be extra nice to that person for fear of letting the secret out so dear,forget the present hurt,be cautious hereafter,move on and just be what you are.love...
Hey Bindi,
I hope you had a nice day. It looks like we are going to get more rain tonight and tomorrow. I hope we can visit again soon.
Love ya, Cecile
Hi Bindi!
Life is lesson and sometimes very hurt/hard lesson. Believe me, that the hard lesson is important too.
It is not easy to understand this moment, but it is lesson and we need it.
Be yourself, and be careful!
Love and happiness be always with you and your family!
Hugsss!
Dear Cielo,
Thank you!
That is so true..
I'll remember this words always...
♥ & ((hugs))
bindi
Dear Suzanne,
Thanks for stopping by!
Yes, today was a good day and my brothers birthday! I talk to him...
take care sweetie!
I love you!
♥ & ((hugs))
bindi
Dear Monsoon dreams,
I am sure i will be more cautious now on...i got enough..
Your words are so true...no more foolishness... Thank you for your kind words!
♥ & ((hugs))
bindi
Dear Cecile,
I had a good day! we didn't got any rain..may be tonight.. :)
See you soon
♥ & ((hugs))
bindi
Dear Krystyna,
I am learning more every single day...more and more.. life teaching me so much...it is hard to pass this moment.. i know I will be myself again but next time I will be more cautious!
Thank you sweetie for your kind words!
♥ & ((hugs))
bindi
Bindi,
I too am a trusting person and have been hurt more than once. It does hurt and makes one very leary of trusting again. But, I still want to trust people, I am more careful now. I also do not like gossipers, there are way to many more important things to do with my time than to waste it on people who want to talk about other people. Very interesting post. Don't quit trusting because there are many wonderful, trustworthy people out there!!
Your are a wonderful friend, thanks for being mine!
Love you, Debbie
Dear Debbie,
Thank you Sweetie!
i got hurt so many times but still i try to trust people...
this time it was so bad...but i will be more careful now...
I can't imagine people don't have nothing better to do other than gossiping...i don't have a minute to sit down and drink a tea, where they getting all this time?
Thank you for being there for me.
you are a wonderful friend am blessed to have you in my life!
♥ & ((hugs))
bindi
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